
I have been envious a couple of times in my life…maybe daily….maybe most of the times…
Feelings of envy at the end of the day are very good signals to our lives and we should not beat ourselves down or see ourselves as envious bad human beings..I used to feel bad when i catch myself being envious of someones life..I used to have an internal dialogue with myself–Sianto–stop being envious.
As per the society we are not supposed to be envious–its a bad thing–it shows that we are not happy for other peoples growth,or success.
I got an answer to that and Envy is just a Signal to me that what i am envious about i can also do it,own it or get it moving but i am not doing it…… either because i am afraid,i am procrastinating,i don’t think i deserve it or i don’t think i am good enough to have what they have.Its an individual full responsibility in getting your way..Maybe you know that you are not giving your best in taking actions that can actualize your goals?when you look closely you will find out that there is something that you are supposed to do but you are not doing it.
If we are doing what we are supposed to do and giving our best in order to achieve our goals then when we see someone excelling,growing, successful we will not feel that negative awful feeling because you know why?–We are also getting things done and giving our best in our goals and we understand very well that person has a successful life because they have made things move-they have put in the work.
lets us have a mind shift from a negative feeling when we are envious to a place where we always ask ourselves a question..what is this envy signalling me to do…..?
Have a day full of Envy!!!I dare you to be okay with feeling envious because the solution to success or getting the life that you want is hidden there!
Wonderful
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